When you were young did you ever find yourself imitating your parents? It’s funny sometimes how kids will want to be just like their parents. Sometimes they admit it, other times they don’t realize it, or if they do they try to hide it. I remember once I was with my Dad at a friends house watching the Seminole/Gator game, yea it’s a big deal cause he’s a HUGE Noles fan. I was just casually sitting there with my hands behind my head and I looked over and saw my Dad sitting the exact same way! Naturally, I changed positions. I’m pretty sure my Dad called me out on that, “Caught yourself sitting like your Dad huh?”
We all have someone we look up to and want to be like. Hopefully, the One you most greatly want to imitate is God!
Ephesians 5:1-2 (NLT) Imitate God, therefore, in everything you do, because you are his dear children. 2 Live a life filled with love, following the example of Christ. He loved us and offered himself as a sacrifice for us, a pleasing aroma to God.
This scripture instructs us to imitate our Heavenly Father! It then immediately tells us to live a life of love. Why is the Bible so insistent that we love one another? Have you ever noticed how often it mentions that we are to love each other?
Ephesians 4:2 (NLT) Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love.
1 Corinthians 13:13 (NLT) Three things will last forever—faith, hope, and love—and the greatest of these is love.
John 13:34-35 (ESV) A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. 35 By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”
There are plenty of other examples, but it is clear God wants us to love each other! It actually says in the last verse that our LOVE will by how the world knows we belong to Jesus. I think a non-believer would be offended by that because let’s be honest, there are a lot of great communities of people out there that show love. Truthfully, there are some groups that are better at loving and more accepting than many churches. We don’t have a reputation for love, we have a reputation for rejection.
I’ve never been one to care about reputation. What I care about is obeying scripture and I’m called to love people. Not only that but Jesus said to love each other “Just as I have loved you”. Ephesians 5:1 told us not only to live a life filled with love, but a love that follows the example of Christ who loved us and gave His life as a sacrifice.
The love of the Christian should stand out because it isn’t just a warm feeling, but a love that will drive us to a lifestyle of self-sacrifice. Within the church, that might mean laying down your opinion or preferences for the sake of being unified in mission. I assure you when the world looks at a church divided and full of conflict they want no part.
Outside of the church, it means reaching out and demonstrating love to all people, even when it is inconvenient. We can’t just live our lives in tiny boxes and say that this time is for evangelism and this time is just for me. We must be open at all times because we never know when divine opportunity will strike.
It is wrong to say we love sinners if we never do anything to demonstrate our love for them. Love not acted upon is just words and words alone have never changed the world. It’s time we rise up with a God kind of love. The kind of love that boldly and unashamedly laid down His very life for the sake of humanity. I’m not suggesting we should make ourselves martyrs, only that we think a little less of ourselves and our own satisfaction and consider the needs of our community. Those we sit across from at Starbucks. What needs might our coworkers have that they’ve kept to themselves because you weren’t interested enough to ask?
Love is the very thing that identifies us as Christ follower.
Today I encourage you to ask yourself, “What can I do to demonstrate Christ’s love to the world?”