Moments are powerful. At any given moment we are full of emotions, our mind consumed with events, people, concerns, fights, worry, conflict, pain. In the heat of these moments, we often make decisions that satisfy our emotions. Turns out they’re not always the best decisions. Though they feel good for a moment, many times they don’t help our situation. In fact, they can sometimes prolong conflict.
Maturing is learning that life is more than this moment. The choices we make NOW actually affect far beyond what we think. Every decision we make has a consequence in tomorrow. Often we think one small choice won’t affect that much, but those same small choices made over and over again are what determine who we are, our character and who we will become.
It is imperative we learn to look beyond the now. How will our choices affect our friendships 3 months from now? How will the way we are talking to our family affect things 3 years from now? As Christians, we even have to think about the eternal consequences. Our choices could impact someone’s eternal decision to live for Jesus.
Brian thought Johnny was annoying. He went out of his way to avoid Johnny whenever he could, but somehow Johnny always tracked him down to tell him about the most minute development in his life. They had gone to school together for 5 years and other than being in the same class, much of the time they never really hung out. Johnny was quirky and often the brunt of jokes from other kids. Brian saw him as an inconvenience. He was too nice to just brush Johnny off, but he didn’t make any great effort to befriend him. He never asked Johnny any questions or invited him to church. Brian just tolerated him.
Johnny had a hard life. He knew he was different and that people didn’t want to be around him, even his own family seemed to hate him. Johnny felt as though he only had one friend, Brian. One day Johnny gave Brian a note that changed everything. It wasn’t a big moment, just a simple comment. The simply note read,
“Thanks for being my friend. I don’t have many. Your friendship probably saved my life.”
Brian had only ever seen Johnny as someone he tolerated. It never occurred to him that Johnny really saw him as a friend. Brian began to realize that what he saw as an inconvenience was actually an opportunity for influence. As his perspective began to change Brian invited Johnny to church where he quickly became a faithful lover of Jesus. Johnny eventually became a Pastor with a big heart to reach those who feel unloved.
Many times our greatest opportunities come disguised as an inconvenience. It wasn’t in our plans to help that person. We had other things we would rather be doing. Spending time with that person might damage our reputation. Too often we pray for opportunities to impact people for Jesus and when they come we miss them because it meant changing our plans. We aren’t always prepared to accommodate God’s plans.
Philippians 3:18-20 (NLT) For I have told you often before, and I say it again with tears in my eyes, that there are many whose conduct shows they are really enemies of the cross of Christ. 19 They are headed for destruction. Their god is their appetite, they brag about shameful things, and they think only about this life here on earth. 20 But we are citizens of heaven, where the Lord Jesus Christ lives. And we are eagerly waiting for him to return as our Savior.
Today I encourage you to look beyond how things will affect you in the moment and look to eternity. We should be much more consumed with the eternal consequences of each moment for those the Lord brings into our path than we should our lunch plans. We are citizens of Heaven, everything we do represents Jesus.
Colossians 4:5-6 (NLT) Live wisely among those who are not believers, and make the most of every opportunity. 6 Let your conversation be gracious and attractive so that you will have the right response for everyone.
I’ve heard many times growing up that the opportunity of a lifetime must be seized within the lifetime of the opportunity. We need to always be ready let go of our plans and embrace divine opportunities.